i realised people are selfcentred by nature.
simple example would be:
1 person talking to grp A
then grp B talking also
the person talking to grp A doesnt care abt what grp B talks abt
but if someone in grp B mentions the person in grp a"s name
ther person in grp A will immediately say
what thing what thing
its like ctrl-f
the minute you hear your name
you immediately will ask what happened
ok i just realised this post is very luan.
if your smart then you shall understand it(: